my first love is in the air force, we were together 3years, i had to end it because of him cheating on me... he was a state 13 hrs away while i was in ny... have you ever dealt with that?

No i havent but we had our share of problems. We are married & we believe in making it work & learning from mistakes. There are people who stay together after one has cheated I dont know how someone can deal with that other than praying & being honest with eachother with everything. You need to do what makes you happy.